Wedding Woes

It's not your 'journey' to explore

Dear Prudence,
I’ve recently started hanging out with a guy in a “getting to know each other, see if we want to date” kind of way. I think he’s lovely and he thinks I’m really great. We’re both 24, and I’ve kissed a few people in my life, but I was his first kiss. It was definitely weird, and the second time he said he wasn’t that into it, and I think the weight of expectations has been confusing for him. How can I best support him in starting to explore his sexuality without inserting myself too much into the situation? For what it’s worth, I think he’s a very good kisser!

—His First Kiss

Re: It's not your 'journey' to explore

  • So, H's and my first kiss was terrible. I was so not into it. There was a lot of build-up, a lot of flirting before hand, and it was underwhelming. 

    We definitely got the hang of it. 
  • M and my first kiss was separate from when I kissed M the first time. {he went for a hug, I kissed him. Missed.}

    Relationships are awkward, first kiss or not lol
  • If I were to judge the relationship my H and I have now based on our first week or two of dating it would be very different.  It was all, are you okay with this, or does this work for you. 

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