save the date/invitation ?

Re: save the date/invitation ?

• charlotte989875 member

  

  March 2017

  Knottie20862782 said:

  Hello, So I had sent a save the date to a family friend(married at the time of me sending it) they recently got divorced and she has a restraining order on the ex husband(who is still invited) and will randomly show up places just to cause trouble. I decided it was best to remove her from the list. is this totally wrong since I did sent a save the date? I know its my day and Id rather not have that drama at my wedding

  So, this is pretty cold, and selfish outlook. She is clearly going through something terrible and you're worried about drama? Nice priorities. 
  
  Are you closer with him, which is why is he still invited? Are you no longer friends with her?  If they are divorced, they are no longer a social unit, and as such do not need to be invited together.
  

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• Knottie20862782 member

  

  March 2017 edited March 2017

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• sparklepants41 member

  

  March 2017 edited March 2017

  Knottie20862782 said:

  well your just rude

  *you're
  
  And TBH, I'm on PPs side with this one. The fact that they are divorced nullifies his invite, IMO. But revoking the family friend's invite while she is going through, I assume, the most difficult time in her life? Now THAT is rude. 
  
  Edited for clarification. 

  

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• missJeanLouise member

  

  March 2017

  Who is the family friend? Her or him? 

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• knottiej member

  

  March 2017

  How is that rude??
  

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• geebee908 member

  

  March 2017

  Apparently, blunt is the new rude. Charlotte was in no way rude in saying maybe you should think about what she's going through instead of what impact it has on your wedding. Major life changes > your party.
  

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• STARMOON44 member

  

  March 2017 edited March 2017

  I think if they have divorced it's okay to just invite the one you are closer to. 

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• sparklepants41 member

  

  March 2017

  Wow. DD of the post and the follow-up comment. Which is pointless, because Knottie #s was quoted in both instances. 

  

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• Ro041 member

  

  March 2017

  Well that was fast.

  
  

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• charlotte989875 member

  

  March 2017

  sparklepants41 said:

  Wow. DD of the post and the follow-up comment. Which is pointless, because Knottie #s was quoted in both instances. 

  And a post to my wall calling me out. 

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• sparklepants41 member

  

  March 2017

  charlotte989875 said:

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  sparklepants41 said:

  Wow. DD of the post and the follow-up comment. Which is pointless, because Knottie #s was quoted in both instances. 

  And a post to my wall calling me out. 

  Are you serious????

  

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• charlotte989875 member

  

  March 2017

  sparklepants41 said:

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  charlotte989875 said:

  sparklepants41 said:

  Wow. DD of the post and the follow-up comment. Which is pointless, because Knottie #s was quoted in both instances. 

  And a post to my wall calling me out. 

  Are you serious????

  
  

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• sparklepants41 member

  

  March 2017

  charlotte989875 said:

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  sparklepants41 said:

  charlotte989875 said:

  sparklepants41 said:

  Wow. DD of the post and the follow-up comment. Which is pointless, because Knottie #s was quoted in both instances. 

  And a post to my wall calling me out. 

  Are you serious????

  
  

  Holy crap! What a peach. 

  

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