Hi everyone. Long time lurker here. I wanted to get TK's opinion on something, as I want to be able to talk to my sister about what she's about to do and I think it will help if I have some backup in my concern.
She is an awesome college soccer player. She just got invited to play on a USA team in Europe. The only problem? It costs $10,000 to be able yo go. My parents want her to be able to go, but they either don't want to or aren't able to pay for the trip.
They have come up with the idea to post on Facebook about this and solicit donations from people to pay the $10,000. They set up an account for her through the team that people can donate to and it's tax deductable.
I personally find this tacky. Yes, it is a great opportunity for her, but many people are given great opportunities that they can't afford to pursue. Just because you are presented with an opportunity, doesn't mean you are entitled to ask other people for money to be able to see it through.
I think donations should be asked for in the case of life saving medical treatment or when someone's house burns down. Not when you want to go play soccer in Europe. (She's not trying to be an olympic or professional soccer player btw, so this isn't a career necessary trip). I think it's so uncomfortable and embarrassing to be asking for money from friends and family on Facebook.
Am I in the wrong for thinking tha?t? I wanted to check before I brougjt it up to her and fel that this was a place where others would be honest.