I am the daughter of the bride and MOH. I haven't had a dinner with my mom's f.i. yet. I haven't met his grown children yet either. Should I host a small engagement party with cake and punch? I'm not sure if it's my place to host and I'm not sure if I should initiate the introducing of the families. I also want to wait for both the divorces to be finalized before I host or plan anything wedding related. Yes, they are both still married to other people but divorces will be finalized this month.