Sooo... my brother is engaged... apparently. It sucks mostly because I can't stand her and she treats my brothe rlike utter crap and partially because I'm worried she'll have the wedding near September. I know it's not my month but can you imagine the suckery that would follow?
She's rude. She's mean. I hate going over there because she turns her nose up at everyone except my brother and my uncle (they are very similar). The whole Christmas party at my brother's house was awkward because she didn't talk to anyone except my brother and uncle.
Ugh.
Plus, he hasn't even called or texted yet. I just found out on Facebook... after about 40 other people commented on her picture already.
Lame. -.-
ETA: Just for clarification. I know I have to put my big girl panties on, I just wanted to let this out since it's so irritating right now. Especially with all the WR stuff I'm behind on and some pressure at work. Ugh!!!
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How long have the two of them been dating? Perhaps now that you are both getting married you can bond over planning and such? I wouldn't particurally want to bond with a woman like that, but it appears that you are going to be stuck with her. Could you talk to your mother about your concerns? I don't want to suggest you create family drama, but it might be good to talk about it.
Also, I doubt they will get married in September. It's already February, and while it is possible to plan a wedding in 7 months, it would be pretty stressful, plus a lot of the vendors she may want could already be booked.
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Just because you saw it on Four Weddings, doesn't mean it's a good idea.
If this broad decides to plan around your date, hopefully your bro will stand up for you because it's obvious that would upset anyone. And your family having two weddings within a month can be super stressful. Hopefully she isn't that heartless.
[QUOTE]Facebook should be banned from dumb people. (had an ex break up with me over FB, he changed his relationship status to single and sent me a message saying it was over and if I wanted to call him crying to wait until he got some sleep. Bunch of my friends knew before me and kept calling and apologizing... say what?!! found out he cheated and felt bad so was too chicken to tell me to my face) If this broad decides to plan around your date, hopefully your bro will stand up for you because it's obvious that would upset anyone. And your family having two weddings within a month can be super stressful. Hopefully she isn't that heartless.
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<div>Wow. I mean, wow. No, my brother won't stand up for anything against her so right now all I can do is just hope that she has some common sense and manners and plans it for next spring. So far I have three old coworkers, one current coworker (ish), and a step brother getting married this year. Possibly my brother now, too. Geez, I thought it was kind of "our year". lol!</div><div>
</div><div>And thanks mcmegan. I'll definitely whine to you when it starts to grate on my nerves! hahaha</div>
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All you can do is not give her any fuel. Don't intentionally piss her off because you don't like her. Just smile and nod and do what you can just to suck it up. Sorry to hear bout the suckiness.