Just looking for some advice/if anyone has been in this situation before and has any insight other than what I'm thinking.....
FH and I have two good friends who used to date and have a kid together, but have since broken up, He is FH's friend, and she is mine.
She is currently dating someone else and her ex is still relatively hung up on her. We want to invite her current boyfriend, a) because he's a really good guy and treats her very well, and b) he's her significant other and he should be invited regardless of how I feel.
Our other friend has mentioned to FH that he would not attend the wedding if her current bf is invited, and has threatened physical violence against him. We've offered for him to be able to bring a date as well, but he says either way he's just not in a place where he can handle seeing the two of them together, which I DO understand and I know the break up has been hard on him. I don't want it to come off like this guys a total jerk, because he really isn't.
To me, this feels like a no brainer and I know we can't not invite her bf and we should invite them all anyway and if FH's friend decides not to come than thats on him, but I also know there's the probability that FH will lose this friendship forever if this is the case. FH wants to discuss it with him and kind of just "tell him what's up" but I wanted to know if there's anyway this friendship can be salvaged?