Hi All,
My fiance and have been engaged a year this month. We initially planned our wedding for Oct 2017 but due to a number of reasons (him getting out of Navy, finding work, him not really helping to save and pay for it since we are doing this on our own without family assistance, me searching for a better paying job, and us just transitioning together and being together). We did not have a real date set for the following year but the idea was sometime in 2018. We have been considering an intimate elopement in NC with just our family cutting down our already small guest list in half or more. In the process of visiting the NC area we had a car accident and he totaled his car. So we just keep coming up on financial difficulties. We have been trying to figure out how to do this besides waiting till we have the money - personal loan, credit cards, etc.
Any ideas or creative solutions?
I am aware just waiting till it is a better time financially to get married is a solution to all of this stress...but at the same time i just wonder if there will be a good time to do this. I don't want to be in an engagement for years and I don't ant to go to justice of the peace ...i want some acknowledgement with my family in public. He has been married once so even though he says it is just as important to him as it is to me i just feel it is a struggle constantly. I guess my main concern is I will have to constantly push and bring up wedding planning in the middle of all these little issues...that I will have to ride him to make it happen. there are moments where it has taken the happiness and romance from planning.