My husband and I got married 6 months ago we plan on doing just a reception in June right around when we got married. I want to have a wedding party, my mother in law says no. I want to do everything like we just came from the wedding but everyone is making a huge deal about it. I want the toast the bouquet and garter toss cake cutting the whole 9 yards and my family isn’t very keen on the idea. I just wanted to know is it there desicon? Do I just take it under advisement and do what I want? My husband also wants to do a sand ceremony in the begging and I like the idea but I need some other input that isn’t my family for help.