My best friend is getting married, and ask me to be MOH...her budget is very very small; which makes contributing to bridal party expenses impossible. However, between airfare to her long-distance location, the dress she's picked, and all the preparation expenses involved and traditional contributions maid's are expected to make, my cost is going to be close to $1000 for weekend! Thats bare-minimum costs, and for a ceremony that is only 5 months away! (She just got engaged.) It's just not in my budget to make that expenditure, but I still want to be MOH...what should I say to her...? What suggestions should I make...?