My husband and I were separated last year and have come back together. When we were married my family really were pushy and disregarded a lot of the things I wanted for our wedding. We didn't even get pur first dance! My husband stated he wants to renew our vows and wants to finally have our first dance and also wants me.to wear my original wedding dress and include our children in the ceremony. I am understanding that vow renewals are becoming more lax on their etiquette and wanted to see what everyone thought of this particular situation?