Little bit of a background story: I have 3 sisters and my fiance has 1 sister, so I have planned since we started dating almost 4 years ago that if we got married my bridesmaids would be all the sisters, only family.
Well, I told one of my friends (a few years ago, long before I was even engaged) that it was just going to be family in my bridal party and she got very mad and said some things aimed towards me and my fiances sister that I don't even want to repeat. I have known this friend since before I can remember and it has always been hard to reason with her.
However, that's not where the drama lies today. When I got engaged she was excited and told me that she was still upset she wasn't going to be a bridesmaid but that she'd still throw me parties and help plan my wedding. Sounds good, right? Well, just in the course of that day things started going too far. At this point I had been engaged for 2 days and I was being asked every detail I knew so she could write it in a planning book and I politely told her what I knew but that my fiance and I wanted to talk those things over. Then later that day she asked if we wanted to meet up every week or every other week to plan. My fiance and I really want to plan OUR wedding together. The two of us. So I (politely again) told her that no, we do not want to do that, my fiance and I would like to plan the majority together, but that we will come to her when we would like her help with something.
I did not think there was anything wrong with that, but I did not get a response and she has given me the silent treatment for a week now. And oh yeah, we work together so I see her every day. She doesn't talk to me and if I say something I get a mumble back.
So I guess the question is, do I just forget about it, let her get over it and don't let it stress me out, or do I need to say something?