Hi y'all. I'm the MOH for my little sister's upcoming wedding and she's having a sad moment as she waits to tell one of her besties about the wedding.
CW: Infertility
So her two best friends are twins (K and C) and she's wanting to tell them she's getting married. However, she and FI had planned to wait a little while and come out with everything around summer. She recently found out she's pregnant and they want to move the wedding up since their original timeline would have put her walking down the aisle close to her due date, or with a new born. Unfortunately, one of the twins (K, married two years now) is struggling with infertility. They've started seeing specialists and have started the process of shots to help increase chances, etc. They've been TTC since marriage.
My sister is putting off telling the twins because she doesn't want to cause K any sorrow or make her feel like she's rubbing it in her face. I just wanted to console with y'all and see if anyone has experienced similar so I can give her sympathy and help her be a compassionate friend. My sister has been close with K since she was seven, so this is a very dear friendship to her. I don't think K would hold it against her, because they're like sisters, but I understand that my sis wants to be the best friend she can be. Any advice would be awesome.