Our venue is very rustic and my cousin is a caterer so we planned to do BBQ and side dishes since that's what she primarily serves. Our guest list has grown to 212 just family and 299 total with friends. Is it outrageous to try and have a full dinner for that many people? We haven't chosen a time so maybe an earlier wedding and appetizers instead of a full meal? I don't know what to do, but it's beginning to sound VERY expensive.