HELP! So we are 88 days out from my wedding and I am really having issues with one of my bridesmaids. She was at my proposal, so it was just kind of unspoken that she would also be a bm.. I have only known for her about a year and a half. I'm at a total loss. It genuinely feels like she's only continued to be my friend because of this wedding. She puts down or finds something wrong with every single one of my ideas which is very frustrating. She can be very self-involved and if something isn't how she wants it she definitley makes it known (often to one of my other bridesmaids whom I've known 10+ years, so she obviously tells me). We had my bachelorette party last weekend and she would just try and make every topic about her or would complain about stuff that didn't even matter. It was almost uncomfortable for me and felt forced to have her there. I feel like we are just majorly growing apart, and as I said I don't think we would still have much of a relationship if it weren't for the wedding. The whole thing is just making me sick and I genuinely don't know if I should just stick it out or ask her to step down. I don't want someone temporary in all of my wedding photos and up there with me on my big day.