I have a bridesmaid that I feel like doesn't understand that in having a BUDGET wedding, that it isn't her wedding (she got eloped a couple years ago and her husband doesn't want a vow renewal whatsoever), or that she isn't MOH? She's already asked if her parents are invited 3 times...which wouldn't be an issue if I were close to her parents...I'm not even inviting MOHs mom and I call her mom! Thats how budget we are talking. There's also the issue of i told her the budget for bridesmaids dresses was $80 TOPS because I may have to pay for them (one of my bridesmaids may not be able to afford her dress, and she's so important to me that I'm willing to get it for her and MOH understands that) and she literally told me "if one of your bridesmaids can't afford a $200-300 dress they shouldn't be in the wedding" which is too much for a dress period. She's been heavily pushing dresses that would only flatter her, instead of being semi okay on everyone, as I want everyone to have the same dress, and doesn't seem to understand that what looks amazing on her doesn't suit everyone. Her response to that "you can't please everyone and some peoples insecurities may show"...as someone who was a bridesmaid in a dress that was ill-fitting, thats not a great attitude? (I loved my dress, I just should have gotten a size up and there wasn't time to do so before the wedding.) And then to the part where I dont think she gets that there are even other bridesmaids let alone that she isn't MOH...she ignores every signal I give her about the other girls being involved and wants everything to just be her and I. Crafting decorations is a "me, you, my mom and your mom" situation every time I insinuate a girls night (after quarantine is over) she's like "me and my mom would have so much fun with that!" Like she denies every ounce of the fact that I have other bridesmaids? How do I deal with this? I have really bad social anxiety and I don't stick up for myself well, and I feel like if this goes further my head will explode..help?