So my future sister in law was supposed to be one of my bridesmaids. She’s very high drama and immature and I knew that when I asked her but I like her well enough and I’d like to take any opportunity to let his family know that I consider them my family now and that they are going to be a big part of our lives.
that being said I knew she was going to be high drama. I have asked for almost nothing from my bridal party. The dress is $50. That’s it’s. Show up in the dress with whatever shoes you’re comfy in and stand up for me. I was prepared for almost anything from my FSIL as a way of drama however.
i was not prepared for her to call me up this week telling me I have to change my wedding from 08/08/20 to next year because of covid. She said people she loves are going to die because of us. So I told her she was welcome not to come but we’ve discussed it and we’re not moving the wedding. So she asks if I can just have the wedding with immediate family (hers not mine of course 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️). I calmly explain that we’re not going to do that and the only thing that will stop our wedding in August is the governor telling us we can’t. I told her we’d love her to come but we wouldn’t hold it against her if she didn’t want to.
we don’t want anyone to come to our wedding if it’s going to make them feel uncomfortable.
That all being said- she’s not social distancing AT ALL. She’s out and about all the time no masks seeing people being around people not for work.
So she calls up my FH the next day crying begging him to change the wedding, he said no. Then, she texts me today telling me I need to replace her in the wedding. Fineeeee. So I tell her that’s fine... and then she proceeds to guilt trip me about her missing her brothers wedding?!?
What I’m the world?!?!?? I don’t even know how to process this. Has anyone else had these problems? How am I supposed to handle her going forward? Because I’m not going to put up with too much more from her about it.... but also don’t want to cause more drama.
pulling my hair out