Hello!
We are getting married September 5th down in colorado springs. We have opted not to make it mandatory that guests wear face masks, we will be providing them for those who do wish to, along with hand sanitizer through out the venue, changed our menu to follow guidelines and opted to move our dance floor outside to allow for more space. My problem is is that i have a bridesmaid who is pitching an absolute fit about us not making masks mandatory, and shes saying we arent doing enough to protect people, and its going to be a complete disaster, that we should throw out anybody who isnt wearing a mask and that we are going to "kill people" and she says she nervous about the whole thing making other very passive aggressive comments towards me. She is also someone who i can see making comments to guests who arent wearing masks. Ive given her the option of leaving after the ceremony if shes that uncomfortable or not coming at all but i need to know so i can make plans and she refuses to give me an answer. She's been a good friend to me over the years, but im starting to think i should just pull her from the bridal party...my maid of honor thinks i should and my fiance has stated that he doesnt want her there considering the comments she's made towards me since this whole thing started. Any advice would be greatly appreciated
