Long story short- My fiancé's father and step mother have restraining orders against his mother. They have (nicely) made it clear that they would not attend if she is present and of course we don’t want to make them uncomfortable/want to celebrate with them/are financially helping with the wedding. I’m hoping/looking for any ideas for how to proceed with wedding planning without it being a huge extra deal. Elopement with one family and ceremony with the other was the one thought that I had had but I’m not hooked on it as of yet. HELP!