Hi everyone!
I have two nieces (10 and 12 - they're sisters) that I'm SUPER close to and really want to include as junior bridesmaids. I have a few dilemmas/questions with this tho!!
1. As of this moment we have a symmetrical wedding party (5 adults in bridal party, 5 adults in groom's party), and we were planning on them walking down in pairs. Do you think it would be cute for the sisters to walk down together in a pair? Or separately on their own? I realize this is super detailed and nitpicky, and maybe I should just ask them what they want?
2. They have a brother (10 year old twin to the younger niece). He's super responsible and sweet. Do you think a "junior usher" position would help him feel involved and not left out compared to how his sisters are involved?
3. My husband-to-be has a 12 year old step nephew that he isn't close to at all and hardly knows, but he's including this step nephew's step-dad (my FH's biological brother) as a groomsmen (I probably could have written that in a less complicated way). Do you think we'd risk this nephew being hurt if we didn't find a way to then include him, too? He's pretty shy, so I'm not sure the junior usher position would fly as well with him...
I realize this is all pretty detailed, but any thoughts/experiences are appreciated!!