Okay, before I begin, I understand some people say it's tacky to invite people to the reception and not the wedding, however, I am not close to my extended family and so my fiance and I have decided to have an intimate wedding with immediate family only (My mom, step dad, brother, fiance's mom, dad, sister, and our 2 kids). My fiance is more set on having an actual reception than I am and has more friends and extended family. Therefore we want to have a separate reception or celebration of our marriage, but on the same day as the intimate ceremony. I want to have a regular reception where I arrive in my dress and such. I don't think any of our friends or family who aren't at the intimate ceremony will be offended, because we know them and we can explain the situation beforehand. My question is how should we do the invitations? Should we do a save the date for the intimate ceremony and one for the reception?