To preface, I would personally like to not have a wedding party. I know anyone I ask to be in the wedding party will help me regardless with the wedding if they are a bridesmaid or not. This is my second wedding and these things don't seem that important to me. However, it is my fiance's first wedding, and he has his groomsmen already lined up (4 total).
So I have 3 close friends that I plan to ask to be bridesmaids. I am also particularly close to my older brother's wife, but not very close to my younger brother's wife or my actual sister. The one I'm close to lives out of state, and the other two live in state. My fiance has really pushed me to ask my SIL out of state to be in the wedding party. However, I'm worried about hurting feelings from my sister and other SIL when they see that I picked our SIL form out of state.
My solution is to just ask my 3 friends, and not stress about the fact that the wedding party is uneven, I know that's not uncommon. But my fiance has even said he will ask my SIL himself because he know's I'm close to her. Thoughts?