I have an upset bridesmaid regarding cost, bachelorette location and dates.
I can't help but be bothered by her offering only availability for one weekend out of the suggested 4 months of options and claiming nothing else works for her. The weekend she wants isn't ideal for me (the bride) and another bridesmaid. I also asked them to keep availability approximately 6+ months before so its not due to short notice. This is the only wedding event aside from the wedding itself.
Now she is complaining about cost/ budget. I want to be sensitive but when I was in her wedding party we spent way more than what my MOH has proposed. Due to cost she is now vetoing every option. I know it is not my place to tell someone how to spend their money so I don't know how to approach this.
I would really like a fun bachelorette as I have had to compromise a lot on this COVID wedding and this is really bothering me as now there is a very negative atmosphere.
I am not planning the bachelorette, they added me to the conversation because things were getting heated between her and the MOH.
Open to suggestions on how to approach this without conflict hopefully.