Hey everyone! My husband and I are planning a vow renewal for autumn of 2022. We got married in our small town’s post office in five minutes, and never had a celebration after or shared it with anyone bc we are pretty young and there was a LOT of drama. My family didn’t think I deserved a “real wedding”, as they said. Now, we have the funds and opportunity to give ourselves a real wedding, so we’re looking at a destination vow renewal in Italy. Basically a micro wedding, with the dress and the food, and photos. Husband and I are more focused on the vows and that moment, then the dinner with everyone together than we are about any dancing and traditional stuff. His family is on board, but mine has told me it’s a big inconvenience for others since we’re already married. I don’t want to be alone on this special day, but I don’t want outside opinions to ruin it either! What do I do??