I was recently supposed to be the matron of honor in my younger cousin's wedding. She has has been like a little sister to me most of her life. My 2 daughters were also in the bridal party as a junior bridesmaid and the flower girl. We went through a year and a half of events like an engagement party, dress shopping trips, throwing her a bridal shower, going on a bachelorette weekend trip in another state, etc. We had bought and paid for everything like shoes, accessories, having hair done, new makeup, etc. In total, I have spend at least $1700 for the 3 of us to be in the wedding.Then, the day before the wedding, they called it off and were splitting up. We suspect that she just didn't love him anymore, but we are so upset that she waited until the day before to wedding to tell everyone. How do I tell her that we expect to be reimbursed for all of our expenses that we paid to be in this wedding while still being supportive to her during this hard time? We suspect that she doesn't have any intention of returning an gifts, cash, checks, or reimbursing anyone in the bridal party because she is blaming everything on her now ex-fiance. What should I do?