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Classic: She's trying to not feel bad. Stop talking to her and start packing.

mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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My wife recently told me that after 11 years together, she is leaving. I was devastated, but we’re continuing living as normally as possible until our lease is up (two months left). Then I found out, as I was frantically trying to repair our relationship, that she was not only already seeing someone new but was trying to have a child with them. I am beyond crushed and I have no idea how to deal with this situation. I’m somehow still in love with her, despite my anger and sadness. She wants to remain my best friend, and I really want her to be happy despite everything. Now, we are living together and she’s still seeing this guy. How do I survive the next two months? Is it healthy to be friends with her after this?
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Re: Classic: She's trying to not feel bad. Stop talking to her and start packing.

  • CharmedPamCharmedPam member
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    I think you need to re-evaluate the term “friendship” because she isn’t one. 

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  • STARMOON44STARMOON44 member
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    It is not healthy to be friends for you. If you can, move out now. If not, don’t be friends. 
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  • downtondivadowntondiva member
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    See if there's a way you can stay with someone else for the next two months, even if you don't move all your stuff out just yet. Don't stay with someone who has been seeing someone else (and trying to have a child with them!!!) behind your back. She is not your friend, and you are not obligated to be hers after what she's done to you. Get away as soon as you can. 
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  • banana468banana468 member
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    She isn't your friend.  

    She's playing you so you'll give her a friendly divorce.  Once it's over she's going to be DONE WITH YOU.  

    Be done with her first.


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  • charlotte989875charlotte989875 member
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    Maybe wife is terrible, maybe there is a lot LW is leaving out but it doesn’t matter- get out for your own sake. You’re not going to repair things so take care of yourself. 
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  • MyNameIsNotMyNameIsNot member
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    She can't wait 2 months for the lease to end to start trying for a baby with the new person? 

    But yeah, no, LW. This is not your friend.
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