I had to remove a bridesmaid from the wedding party. I don't think its necessary to get into details, however, she let me down on multiple occasions and unfortunately our friendship has suffered.
However, I have another friend who I know wont feel slighted or disrespected by me asking her after the fact. I have a brunch planned with her but am looking for cute suggestions or punny jokes to ask her. We both have a great attitude and send of humour.
Please help, this disappointed Bride turn her day around
Re: Had to remove a bridesmaid. Fun ideas to ask another good friend.
Also, how do you know she won't be offended that she got wedding party b-listed?
I'm old and shaking my cane here, but your WP should be the people who are closest to you and provide their love and support to you moving from single to married person. Parties and showers and all that are just gravy. It's not a tick list where if someone doesn't fit the 'mold', you can call the next person up in the batting order.
The older I get the more I'm in the zone of being my friend is not about what I can do for your or what you can do for me or "me letting you down".
But if you are certain that this person is fine being asked later then ask. I think it's important to stress that your WP is not a cast. Don't treat it like a spot opened up. Treat it like you wished you asked her earlier and are asking her now.
I kicked someone out and now I want you.
My first choice didn't work out, so I guess you'll do