Dear Prudence,
My husband is always trying to hang out with other women. He always wants to do nice things for them and go out of his way for them, but he doesn’t do the same for me. He treats me like I’m supposed to do everything he demands and just accept it. When I confront him about what he’s doing and say that I’m angry about the situation, he just ignores me or tells me a story about how he just needed to do a quick favor, like move some furniture, for one of these women. But I know that he’s trying to have more than that because I’ve read his text messages and they are very explicit. He says he loves me, but I can’t take it anymore because he seems to try and do this with every woman he meets. He just seems like he doesn’t care about my feelings at all and just wants to have his cake and eat it, too. I don’t know what to do: I’ve asked him to leave several times, but he refuses. I’m so confused about what he wants in this relationship.
— So Angry and Confused