Thursday Thursday. Come to an end!
I’m not understanding my good friends. We e-mail each other daily (there’s 3 others in our email geoup) and tell each other everything. Last night was date #3 with the okcupid guy. I said I was on the fence about him. But last night I saw some humor and personality and I like him. Although I felt bad because I made a bad joke about changing an answer (it was trivia) and said “oh. i don’t know what the answer is. I just like to argue”. Which I actually don’t like to. Hence why I said it. He said “I hope not!” And then I remembered why he got his divorce. His ex was mean and verbally abusive and had anger issues. So I told my friends “d’oh! Coulda kicked myself. Wrong audience”.
My one friend said “it’s just a date”
I was confused by that comment. I said “right. But what does that mean? i’m allowed to say triggers because it’s just a date?”
Then she said “I mean it's just a date. There's no pressure if it doesn't work because you don't have to marry him”.
I still don’t know where she’s coming from? I just wrote back “correct” to her/them because I don’t want to draw this out any further (see? I HATE arguing) but is she womansplaining dates to me? I know it was one. I was on it. I also know it may take a few of them to see where you want things to go, which this one did. I had to re-read what I wrote. No where did I say I drove home, went online, and registered with my County for a marriage certificate…. 🙄