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Just Engaged and Proposals

Mom Accidentally Gave Away Proposal Date

As the title suggests I was spending a girls weekend away with my mom and she asked me to help her cancel a dinner reservation on her phone. I opened up her calendar to cancel the reservation and right as I opened the app it was on an event she created titled ____ & ____ engagement. My boyfriend and I created the ring together so I really really wanted the proposal to be a total surprise. Not sure how to proceed from here or how much planning has already gone into the proposal and if it is possible to change the date. I still don’t know his plan but I’m feeling pretty bummed overall. What would you do?

Re: Mom Accidentally Gave Away Proposal Date

  • As the title suggests I was spending a girls weekend away with my mom and she asked me to help her cancel a dinner reservation on her phone. I opened up her calendar to cancel the reservation and right as I opened the app it was on an event she created titled ____ & ____ engagement. My boyfriend and I created the ring together so I really really wanted the proposal to be a total surprise. Not sure how to proceed from here or how much planning has already gone into the proposal and if it is possible to change the date. I still don’t know his plan but I’m feeling pretty bummed overall. What would you do?
    Think a minute why you’re bummed? Just that you thought it would be surprised? Does knowing the date mean you won’t be as surprised or happy with whatever is planned? Will it change how much you want to marry your partner? Or celebrate with your friends and family?

    If it were me I’d get my nails done and make sure my hair was cut/ styled how I wanted and enjoy whatever they have planned. It will still be a happy & exciting day even if you know it’s coming. 
  • At this point I'd just get prepared.  

    And I totally understand the feeling of a surprise being spoiled but instead maybe put the spin on it that you're going to be doing these things together so knowing makes you a partner in all the steps?
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