It was really freaking nice to not have to wake up and willpower myself into my old employer today. I'm going into the new office later this morning to drop off my paperwork (which they emailed me at the same time they made the offer) and see my new office b/c "some of the women looked at it and said they wouldn't like the way it was set up, so we'd like you to come in and see it, so we can make any changes you'd want". I have almost cried at what seems like ultra-efficiency at this new place, but I know is really just professionalism that I've missed.
I have a mammogram this afternoon as well. Yay for boob smashing. Which honestly isn't that bad; it's the face placement that's awkward. "Hello, yes, my face doesn't GO there and I can't move it there".
L was supposed to come over for the final F1 race yesterday and cancelled on me, so I feel like I'm kinda done with that noise.
I left a nice-but-pissed-off note on my neighbors' door. They were loud until after 2 am on Saturday night (I know b/c they woke me up multiple times and then i was just awake at 3 am, but they were quiet by that point). Last night, they had friends over and they were loud AF (multiple men voices screaming about something multiple times) until 10:30 pm, when I finally pounded on their wall and yelled, "STFU already". The note just saus, Please remember we share space. I try to leave you alone about noise on Fri/Sat nights and before 10 pm on weekday nights, however you are now interrupting my sleep and peace multiples times per week. My next steps are calling securty and complaining to management. Please stop." (I have spoken in person with one neighbor about this issue before). Hopefuly this gets me some relief. Because I WILL start a playlist of a bunch of Dies Iraes, Wheels on the Bus, and Baby Shark, push it up against the shared wall, blast it, and leave. These 2 cis-het men have no idea how exactly petty this queer woman can be.
Just out here, spewing boundaries about how I expect to be treated, everywhere.
