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Wedding Woes

Wednesday

Getting back into the swing of things at work.  While I was out, the coworker in the nextdoor cube that played his music too loud, moved halfway across our cube room.  He's a great guy and a coworker-friend, but I'm also so glad he doesn't sit next to me anymore, lol.

The closing for a second duplex is this Friday.  It really got pulled out of the fire.  Unfortunately, the video inspection of the plumbing did not go well.  Similar issues to the "next door duplex" that we closed on last Friday, though not as severe.  For the first one, we fixed it before closing but it ended up costing us $23K.  Really, really upsetting and disheartening.

For this second one, the quote was $12,500.  We thought the buyer was going to walk, because he was already unreasonably impatient over how long it took for the roof to be fixed after a portion of it was removed during a tornado.  But he agreed to still close if I would take that plumbing repair quote off the sales price.  OMG, YES!!!!  Considering I'd have to do something about it for anyone buying the house, I'm happy to give him that concession, wash my hands of it, and walk away.

He lives out of town and is doing the final walk through, only 40 minutes before we are scheduled to close.  I'm a little nervous about that because he has been very persnickety and kind of a pain to deal with.  We didn't do everything he wanted, but we did everything we said we would.  But it was weird because usually repairs agreed to are part of the documentation.  But only the roof, drywall, and that piping concession are part of the Purchase Agreement.  The rest of the repair requests were "verbal" e-mail/texts that amounted to, "We'll do ABC, but not XYZ."  So anyway, I'm hoping he doesn't have some delusion in his head that we were going to fix everything he wanted.  Or if he does, at least he will still close anyway.

Just keep crossing my fingers everything goes smoothly and we will be free of this second one by the weekend!
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Re: Wednesday

  • I ended up being off yesterday.
    I was fine leading up to it, but yesterday was what would have been my dad's 63rd bday.
    Idk. I was fine day before. Night before. That day? Woke up just not ok. Think -4 level patience.

    I knew it was a day I just needed to not.

    I did vacuum and mop our spare room. My uncle is coming to look at the floors since we need to redo them. Figured I'd clean them a bit.
    I've noted a few things we've gotta toss too. *sigh*
  • Back at the office today.  The roads are finally loads better with stuff melting off, but the temperatures are so low, I worry about black ice.  I'm thankful I'm so close; but realistically a car accident can happen anywhere/time, so being close doesn't really lessen the  risk.

    Otherwise, SSDD.  I've got to go over to my mother's tonight because she needs a new keyboard and I have an extra.  I'm kind of in a funk, but I think it's just a little depression that I need to deal with, that I'm feeling now that my Lexapro is lowered.  I'm starting to feel pretty lonely; I like being in a relationship.  However, I do not feel ready to date and I don't really want to date either.  If spring could hurry up and get here so I can start going floating and enjoying sunshine, that'd be great and would probably alleviate some of this funk.

    I had created an event to take dinner to one of the youth shelters here for my birthday.  But I think I'm going to cancel it, handle it all myself, and then just do an online donation thing for it.  I'm still considering hosting a small get together, but I'm feeling unsure about it.  Part of me really wants to, part of me wants to be lazy and alone, part of me wants a big blow out, part wants a small intimate get together....IDK basically.  

    :smiley:
  • @ei34 I had the same thing happen.  Holy hell, I can't remember my former anniversary, but my divorce wasn't finalized until February.  We were already separated and he texted me happy anniversary.  It was done to be a snit and I knew it.  I just ignored it. 

    I started a new FB profile a few years back and it was really nice to just have that feeling of complete separation.  We had been married/together so long, that even hiding him wasn't enough.
  • @CharmedPam damn that is lucky! I've done that but not that long!

  • @CharmedPam damn that is lucky! I've done that but not that long!

    It was -1.  I didn’t want to open my door! Lol

  • @MissKittyDanger, I'm sorry you had a rough day, yesterday.  I hope today has been better.

    @CharmedPam, glad your house and car were okay!  

    @ei34, I can understand why today feels rough. You can be glad you left and know it is what was best for you and the kids.  While at the same time being disappointed that the marriage/husband took a bad direction and didn't turn out the way you had hoped.
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  • @short+sassy enjoying a King cake someone brought into work and thought of you!
  • @short+sassy enjoying a King cake someone brought into work and thought of you!
    Nice!  I hope it was yummy.

    I'm picking one up from a great bakery on Sunday.  They use a cream cheese frosting which is unusual, but my favorite.
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  • CharmedPamCharmedPam member
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    edited February 2023
    I still have the baby from our cake @short+sassy! It was supposed to help me win $5,000 but it didn’t!

    Totally get the crappy feelings ya’ll are experiencing from failed relationships and marriages.  I still get that way too.  Anger at exH for making me single again. I shouldn’t be single! I thought I had my happy ever after!

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