Dear Prudence,
My marriage limped along until I realized I was happier alone than ever with my ex-husband. The house was mine before the marriage and after the divorce, I contacted my former stepdaughters to ask when they were going to come down and collect all their things. Both are in their early twenties. They have a crap ton of furniture, collectibles, and boxes from their high school days stored in my house. Their mother moved out of town right in the middle of their high school years and they moved in with us until they graduated. Both made and broke several attempts to get their things. It has been six months, and their answer is they will “get around” to it. I told my ex, I want to move on and I can’t when I have two bedrooms and a basement full of their things and that he needed to pay for the movers and storage. He refused and I am stuck at what to do. I am not paying hundreds of dollars and moving all this stuff myself. I also don’t want to drag out the conflict with my former stepdaughters. I figured I would give them until the end of June to make the trip and if they hadn’t by then, donate or sell what was left behind.
Any thoughts?
—Stuck With Stuff