Dear Prudence
A friend of mine, Sarah, is getting married later this year. We have been casual friends for about five years now, and I am invited to the bachelorette party, but not to the bridal party. I am an executive assistant and pretty organized in both my personal and professional life. Sarah keeps making comments about how she has told the maid of honor that I’m an EA and will be super helpful. I’m worried that the bachelorette party won’t be to Sarah’s liking and she will slightly blame me for this even though I’m not in the bridal party and therefore won’t have a hand in organizing it (and it’s not my job to!). Should I say something now, or just let it play out? Should I try to help if the MOH asks?