Okay- I know the discussion title sounds absurd and your first thought will probably be, “Oh my gosh, why is this bridezilla even ASKING this?!” That would be my first thought as well, but hear me out pretty please.
My first marriage lasted 30 years. Over time we ended up being best friends, basically roommates if you get my drift. We got along great, but you could tell that unfortunately time had smothered our flame. Divorced and he went his way and I went mine.
So, my discussion - We lost our house down to the slab in Hurricane Katrina in Waveland, MS, where the eye of the storm passed. We were extremely fortunate to have our insurance pay out our entire claim. With replacing our home and lives my husband at the time went and purchased a new truck. We agreed to one item to purchase that we normally would have not done for ourselves. He bought the truck and I chose to pick my own wedding set that I loved. He was no where in the decision making process or purchasing. All me. And I took advantage and went all out.
We’ve recently divorced, and my stars aligned 2 years ago at 47 years old and met “my person”. I love my ring, and would love to continue to wear it in the marriage I was meant to be in. What do y’all think?