Dear Prudence,
My wife and I have two very good friends who are going through a separation and potentially a divorce. We are very close to both of them. I’ve talked to both separately, and can see both sides of the issues, and where the perceived and actual faults are. We may be the only friends of the couple that are talking to both. I don’t want to take sides though, and want to figure out how we can be the best possible friend to both—even when they may have been infidelity. I’m not sure how to navigate this.
—Not Sure How to Deal