Hello all! This question is more about inclusion than etiquette but I hope it’s the right place to post anyway!
My fiance and I are both very introverted and don’t like a ton of eyes on us at once. In not wanting to feel uncomfortable at our own wedding, we decided to do a ceremony separate from the reception with only our parents and MAYBE a few more immediate family members. We will likely do this a day or 2 before the wedding itself.
i was wondering if anyone can suggest little things we can do at the reception to make our guests feel more included in the sentimentality aspect that is normally associated with the ceremony part of the wedding. As of now we are planning to do an entrance and then a speech thanking everyone for coming together to celebrate our marriage, followed by our first dance, then toasts.
in the invites I plan to write - “please join us to celebrate our marriage” - so it’s clear there is no ceremony. Despite being reserved and private about what will be a very emotional moment for both of us (meaning the ceremony) I want our guests to know how much we value and love them, so am looking for ways to do that that still honor the boundaries FH and I agreed upon. Any suggestions?