So I jumped the gun and did my bridesmaids proposal before thinking things through. Everyone knows where the destination wedding is taking place and have all said yes but now I’m wondering if I should just do the MOH at the destination and the rest of the bridal party do something at home for the reception. Any thoughts on this? I feel bad making the girls travel for a 10-15 minute ceremony and then that’s it. They are all important to me so I do want to do something with them but can’t justify asking them to shell out all this money. Any suggestions or help is appreciated.