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Wednesday

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edited January 2024 in Wedding Woes
Vet visit for both babies yesterday.  It was originally scheduled for Izzy to get her rabies and other shots.  We want to take her to the groomers, but her rabies vaccine had expired.  Maple Bar was due for her shots also.

But over the last few days, Izzy has lost three teeth!  So we talked to the vet about that also.  The vet said there isn't anything we can do about her teeth, other than switch her to wet food and only soft treats.  It's just part of her aging.  We were really sad.  One of her FAVORITE treats are these dinosaur shaped chew treats.  It takes her 5-10 minutes to eat them and she is completely focused and obsessed the whole time.

I was checking wet food to order some from Amazon or Walmart and now I'm even more bummed.  OMG, it's so much more expensive than dry!  Supposedly, dogs are supposed to eat 1 oz. of wet food for every 1 lb. they weigh.  She's a smaller medium sized dog and only 23 lbs.  But that's still about two 12 oz. cans a day.  Seems like a lot of food, so we'll see.  She's a self feeder who eats about 1-1 1/2 cups of dry food each day, which is less than average for a dog her size.

But on the bright side, the vet said she is in very good health considering her age (14 years).  She's developed cataracts and we didn't think there was anything that could be done about that.  But the vet said it is not very advanced and wrote us an eye drop prescription that will help slow it down further.  That was really good news.

This was the first time we put Maple Bar in a carrier.  She doesn't mind being in the carrier.  But is VERY unhappy when the carrier is moving, either by car or being carried in it.  She's often pretty vocal anyway, but has a soft voice.  My H said it was the loudest he had ever heard her.  He also got her calming drugs for the very long drive, when we move later this year.  He said she was surprisingly calm with the vet.  Usually she's nervous around new people.  She's still a youngster, so her health is fine.

Oh Izzy!  My little old lady.
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Re: Wednesday

  • Ugh - woke up to a text from the hospital where Chiquita is treated to see that our bill is HUGE because insurance denied it due to a benefit exclusion.  DH is going to call to get it corrected because we were previously told we have coverage. 


  • Ugh. Why is insurance such a nightmare. I’m sorry for the extra stress @banana468

    @short+sassy I’m sorry about Izzy’s teeth. Our last visit the vet told us my baby girl would probably lose a few teeth in the upcoming years and it made me sad. She’s not even that old! Only 7. =(

    Work today. Woke up at 5 and thought about doing a work out…but then I chose to go back to bed. Otherwise SSDD. 


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  • Thanks @levioosa.  I nearly fell down when I saw it and it's for the October infusion.   We were also told in September that this was covered until March so I can only think that someone there screwed up but it's an absolute PITA.  I hate that dealing with a chronic illness comes with the need to have a large backbone and the time and skillset to deal with this BS. 
  • Insurance is so ridiculous. I've made a point the last few years to call on just about every bill and often it gets knocked down or adjusted bc of an "error". insane that that's what it takes. Hope you get it sorted asap @banana468

    H is overnight in another city tonight so fingers crossed bedtime goes well - it's been really good the last week. Making it easy on myself and doing breakfast for dinner - we have leftover homemade waffles from the weekend. 

    I need to start working out at lunch. I hate doing it then, but i've come to the realization that if i don't, i just wont have time otherwise. I brought stuff today but we'll see if i actually do it. At least i COULD if i decide to. 
  • Ugh those accidental medical bills are the worst things to open @banana468- hoping it's wrapped up in not too many phone calls and that you don't receive similar bills for the next infusions,
    Glad your fur babies had good health reports @short+sassy

    FWP I desperately need my hair dyed but not sure when I can squeeze in a cut and color- I'd had an appt (and childcare squared away) a few days after Christmas but I'd had to cancel bc I was sick.  I usually go late Dec, April and August, and I don't want to just wait until the spring.  But I'm struggling to carve out the time.
  • Thank you!  I'm annoyed because she has the November and December ones not yet invoiced and if they're all the same we are going to have a lot of phone calls back and forth to make.  I'm hoping this is a dumb oversight and gets corrected because frankly we're not paying it. 
  • Hope things get straightened out quickly @banana468.

    I'm headed for a cut and color in just a few minutes. I want to spend another lazy day snuggling with the pup. He really doesn't like this weather and would rather just snuggle! I do have things to do though when I get back from the stylist. So I guess he'll just have to adjust.
  • That sucks @banana468; I’m dreading insurance now- our coverage changed on January 1, which happened to be the day J was discharged from our first visit back to the hospital. I’m sure both carriers will be a disaster. 

    Hope it gets resolved soon and doesn’t happen with the other mothers. Do you have any confirmation where you were told it was covered? 
  • @banana468 I hate the health system for you guys :(

    @short+sassy  How old is little Maples now?

    @Casadena solo bed time is a wild ride ....
  • Insurance makes me rage for like a million different reasons. One of them is how insane our system is that once a year potentially everything about your coverage changes. Even if you stay on the same plan for your employer. Often you get a new ID card with a new number, there have been changes (never good) to what the plan covers, and you have to set up whole new accounts. It’s absolutely maddening. Especially if you’re someone in the middle of chronic health issues and management. Hugs, everyone. 


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  • @banana468, good luck and I also hope it's just billing error.  Hospitals are RIFE with billing errors and mistakes, so that there is a good chance.

    Medical insurance, sometimes the lack thereof, is the bane of my existence.

    Although small potatoes, one of the bills that made me the angriest was for a retinologist appointment.  This was years ago, but my eye doctor thought he saw slight damage to my retinas and recommended I see a retinologist and gave me a referral.  It's a common complication of diabetes and I have to get my eyes dilated annually, though regular eye doctors can do that.

    Apparently that is a rare specialty.  The person he recommended didn't have her own office because she covered all of southeast Louisiana.  She worked out of his office a couple times a month and also out of Tulane hospital about once a week.

    I called my insurance.  If I saw her at my eye doctor's office, she was out of network.  If I saw her at Tulane, she was in network.  Same doctor (eyeroll).  Whatever.

    So I made my appointment at Tulane.  I got two bills.  One from Tulane's billing office on her behalf.  Because I guess she doesn't do her own billing either.  And one from Tulane itself.  $28 for having a doctor's appointment at their hospital.  As if they are an amusement park with an admission fee.

    My bill from her was coded like a hospital visit, so my insurance didn't cover any of it because that type of charge falls under my deductible instead of being a copay.  I called the billing department, who said I had to talk to her office for them to change it.  I left her a couple messages, but was never called back.

    I didn't pay either bill and fortunately never heard anything more about it nor did I get reported to collections.

    The icing on the cake was she didn't see any damage to my retinas and neither have any of the other eye doctors I have seen over the years.  Don't get me wrong, that's awesome and very comforting news.  But all of that hassle was from that eye doctor seeing something that no one else has seen, so he was probably mistaken.
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  • @banana468 I hate the health system for you guys :(

    @short+sassy  How old is little Maples now?

    @Casadena solo bed time is a wild ride ....
    We adopted her 4 years ago!  January 2020.  I can't believe it's been that long.  She was a tiny, 3-month old kitten so she's also about 4 years old.

    But now the month/year will be forever etched in my memory because just a couple months later is when the world came crashing down.  I remember being really glad we had adopted her when we did.
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    For "I'm Just Ken" to win song at People's Choice, and now Greta isn't nominated as director - I'm out. I knew Hollywood had issues, but this is enough.
    I've never been vastly into them, but now I'm out.


    New offer came in.
    Short version I'm temp manager for position now. Then I'll be moved to where I wanna go.
    Both involve raises. 
    Hooray for raises!  Congratulations!

  • That sucks @banana468; I’m dreading insurance now- our coverage changed on January 1, which happened to be the day J was discharged from our first visit back to the hospital. I’m sure both carriers will be a disaster. 

    Hope it gets resolved soon and doesn’t happen with the other mothers. Do you have any confirmation where you were told it was covered? 
    I need to pull the EOB which is likely a paper in our files.   And DH has had calls with the case worker on this so I'm optimistic that this is a clerical error because I also have to think that this would be really expensive on the part of the hospital.
  • It's all horrid.  I have to order medical records/bills as part of my job.  Explaining the system to a new co-worker is always overwhelming.  "Well, if they have a surgery, you have a physician's charge, the hospital charge, and the anesthesia charge, at a minimum.   You might also have another radiology charge, another lab charge, and a charge for the PA assisting.  All of these are located at different providers and will be a different request."  And that's not even getting into all of the different crap with HIPAA forms you might have to go through.

    I went and saw Goonies at the movie theatre last night.  Oh my gosh, I had so much fun and so did my friend.  We laughed so hard, they gave us a bandana, marble bag with gems, and an eye patch, that were all stamped, "Never say die!!".  Thoroughly enjoyable evening.

    I really want to go see Poor Things tonight, but I think Harley might stage a full scale revolution if I do.  I laugh that I think things like, "I need to go home and be with my cat", but that is why I got a pet. 

    Also, @short+sassy, there might be some other easier/cheaper options.  Zelda was so darn picky about her foods, sometimes we just got the kibble she liked and soaked it in chicken broth until it was basically mush and she'd eat that.  You can also fortify with things like roasted carrots, pumpkin puree (Zelda and Bennet both loved that and refused to eat their food without it), some chicken and rice, etc.  Also Chewy.com is almost always cheaper than anyplace else and they give you a pretty big discount with your first  autoship and then a small savings every other time.  I'm sorry though, it hurts when our pets start aging.


  • @banana468 really hope it’s just clerical and doesn’t happen to your other ones.  Ugh!
    yay @MissKittyDanger that’s awesome
    poor Izzy.  People and animals getting old is sad to watch

    We had work meetings all day.  Just heading to the company dinner - with my cup of tea - trivia. 

  • VarunaTT said:
    It's all horrid.  I have to order medical records/bills as part of my job.  Explaining the system to a new co-worker is always overwhelming.  "Well, if they have a surgery, you have a physician's charge, the hospital charge, and the anesthesia charge, at a minimum.   You might also have another radiology charge, another lab charge, and a charge for the PA assisting.  All of these are located at different providers and will be a different request."  And that's not even getting into all of the different crap with HIPAA forms you might have to go through.

    I went and saw Goonies at the movie theatre last night.  Oh my gosh, I had so much fun and so did my friend.  We laughed so hard, they gave us a bandana, marble bag with gems, and an eye patch, that were all stamped, "Never say die!!".  Thoroughly enjoyable evening.

    I really want to go see Poor Things tonight, but I think Harley might stage a full scale revolution if I do.  I laugh that I think things like, "I need to go home and be with my cat", but that is why I got a pet. 

    Also, @short+sassy, there might be some other easier/cheaper options.  Zelda was so darn picky about her foods, sometimes we just got the kibble she liked and soaked it in chicken broth until it was basically mush and she'd eat that.  You can also fortify with things like roasted carrots, pumpkin puree (Zelda and Bennet both loved that and refused to eat their food without it), some chicken and rice, etc.  Also Chewy.com is almost always cheaper than anyplace else and they give you a pretty big discount with your first  autoship and then a small savings every other time.  I'm sorry though, it hurts when our pets start aging.


    Thanks for the tips!  I like the idea of soaking her kibble in chicken broth so it's soft.

    Izzy LOVES pumpkin!  We give that to her as a healthy treat a few times a month.  But I could see it also being a good base for a meal.
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  • VarunaTT said:
    It's all horrid.  I have to order medical records/bills as part of my job.  Explaining the system to a new co-worker is always overwhelming.  "Well, if they have a surgery, you have a physician's charge, the hospital charge, and the anesthesia charge, at a minimum.   You might also have another radiology charge, another lab charge, and a charge for the PA assisting.  All of these are located at different providers and will be a different request."  And that's not even getting into all of the different crap with HIPAA forms you might have to go through.

    I went and saw Goonies at the movie theatre last night.  Oh my gosh, I had so much fun and so did my friend.  We laughed so hard, they gave us a bandana, marble bag with gems, and an eye patch, that were all stamped, "Never say die!!".  Thoroughly enjoyable evening.

    I really want to go see Poor Things tonight, but I think Harley might stage a full scale revolution if I do.  I laugh that I think things like, "I need to go home and be with my cat", but that is why I got a pet. 

    Also, @short+sassy, there might be some other easier/cheaper options.  Zelda was so darn picky about her foods, sometimes we just got the kibble she liked and soaked it in chicken broth until it was basically mush and she'd eat that.  You can also fortify with things like roasted carrots, pumpkin puree (Zelda and Bennet both loved that and refused to eat their food without it), some chicken and rice, etc.  Also Chewy.com is almost always cheaper than anyplace else and they give you a pretty big discount with your first  autoship and then a small savings every other time.  I'm sorry though, it hurts when our pets start aging.


    Thanks for the tips!  I like the idea of soaking her kibble in chicken broth so it's soft.

    Izzy LOVES pumpkin!  We give that to her as a healthy treat a few times a month.  But I could see it also being a good base for a meal.
    Brunnhilde is only 9, but she does have great teeth (knock on wood).  I make her food to go with her dry kibble, and it was both for health reasons for her and to save money.  She gets one scoop with every meal of her homemade dog food.  we make it once a week and you can freeze it in meal portions or just keep it in the fridge.  Two cups rice, 1 lb protein (we've been doing ground chicken but we used to do chicken hearts when they were cheap) and two cups frozen veggies.  It's been great for her.  When she was really sick in 2020, she would also get the broth so I second that as a great option.  So good for their joints as well.

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