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LW is not evil

After years of watching conservative news and the Catholic channel, my dad has become increasingly isolated from our family, and he recently told me that I am evil because of my pro-choice stance and that he no longer wants a relationship with me. This statement came out of the blue, and he has begun to turn down invitations to family events and holiday celebrations. He is single and I, his most attentive daughter, was the only family member to investigate after he underwent a secret hepatitis treatment and was near death in his house after a bad reaction.

Now I feel like he has no one to look out for him. It breaks my heart that he will live out his final years alone and with no one to care for him as he ages. I don’t know how hard I should push for a relationship with him when he has been so heavily influenced by extremist media and isn’t behaving rationally.

Re: LW is not evil

  • "Dad I'm sad that you have turned me away and that we cannot agree to disagree here. Please know I'm here if you need anything."   You can only do so much here especially if the man is not showing signs of diminished cognition and just TDS. 
  • banana468 said:
    "Dad I'm sad that you have turned me away and that we cannot agree to disagree here. Please know I'm here if you need anything."   You can only do so much here especially if the man is not showing signs of diminished cognition and just TDS. 
    Agree!  I'd let him know he can still count on me, if he changes his mind.  But otherwise I will respect his wishes and not call or visit.

    Though I think I would still occasionally mail a card or send an e-mail.
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