"Can we have our chats before you go smoke?"

Re: "Can we have our chats before you go smoke?"

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  banana468 member

  

  May 2

  "Oh did you just come in from a smoke break?  Would it be possible to have any meetings before you head outside?  I understand that's not always possible but the smoke can bring on a headache for me occasionally and I try to avoid that when possible." 
  
  Beyond that she's your boss so tread lightly.  That said, I'm a huge fan of more and more business campuses going smoke free.  In my prior company smokers were allowed breaks at their discretion and it was infuriating when you could calculate the amount of time that they were allowed to take on a 'quick paid' break compared to how their non-smoking coworkers did not benefit.  

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  short+sassy member

  

  May 6

  Most of my jobs have given everyone a 10 or 15-minute break in the morning and afternoon.  They were flexible and people could use them when they wanted.  Smokers were supposed to keep their smoking to those breaks.
  
  There was a Friends episode where Rachel pretended she was a smoker to get on her boss's good side.  Another woman who held Rachel's same position was a smoker and she was getting better assignments because she and the boss would chit-chat on the smoking breaks they took together.
  
  One day, the other two women were talking about how they should quit.  Rachel jumped on the opportunity that they should all try to quit together!  The other women thought that was a good idea, so they all formed a pact.  But the other two women fell off the wagon and started sneaking out for smoke breaks.  They didn't invite Rachel because she was "so good!" about quitting smoking and didn't want to tempt her.  They were impressed by her resolve, lol.  And the other coworker got the plum work trip to Paris. 

  

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  banana468 member

  

  May 6

  short+sassy said:

  Most of my jobs have given everyone a 10 or 15-minute break in the morning and afternoon.  They were flexible and people could use them when they wanted.  Smokers were supposed to keep their smoking to those breaks.
  
  There was a Friends episode where Rachel pretended she was a smoker to get on her boss's good side.  Another woman who held Rachel's same position was a smoker and she was getting better assignments because she and the boss would chit-chat on the smoking breaks they took together.
  
  One day, the other two women were talking about how they should quit.  Rachel jumped on the opportunity that they should all try to quit together!  The other women thought that was a good idea, so they all formed a pact.  But the other two women fell off the wagon and started sneaking out for smoke breaks.  They didn't invite Rachel because she was "so good!" about quitting smoking and didn't want to tempt her.  They were impressed by her resolve, lol.  And the other coworker got the plum work trip to Paris. 

  I remember that!
  
  I think that's such a sign of how things have shifted in the last 30 ish years since that episode aired.    I think it's so much more socially acceptable to acknowledge to others that smoke that their doing so is an imposition on the senses and health to those around them but obviously if the boss is a smoker and it's this much of an issue there's probably plenty of issues related to quitting. 

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