Before I start , I know there are no original ideas that exist in the world. In this context , I’m referring to an ex friend that I shared details of my winter wedding that we plan to have later this year..we were both planning on getting married this year, which at the time of our friendship was an exciting opportunity to share the experience and talk about respective plans.
Ex friend and I stopped speaking because they said some insulting stuff to me that I refused to forgive because it showed true disdain for me as a person. So we haven’t spoken since she said what she said. It took me a few days to block her because I had some family matters to attend to regarding my dads health(he’s doing better now thank goodness), but before i blocked her I saw she announced she was changing her wedding to a winter wedding in the snow instead of the fall wedding she originally was having , and copied details down to the city I chose. I feel like a petulant child for being upset because my future marriage is more important than the wedding itself,but it just felt like a slap in the face because she expressed zero interest in a winter wedding until we stopped speaking. I’ve obviously blocked her now, and I promise I won’t be going back to lurk in any way, I’m just needing a vent.