Dear Prudence,
I recently matched with a man on a dating app and met up with him for drinks and then dinner. We work in the same industry, and on our date we talked a lot about work things. We also learned we have some mutual friends, which makes sense because of the professional overlap.
It was a really fun date and I’d like to see him again. But then I ended up telling one of the mutual friends about the date. She told me that he made a woman at his last job uncomfortable by asking her out and then iced her out of meetings after she rejected him. I feel really bummed to learn this! That’s like, textbook sexual harassment, right? Should I ask him about this? It was about five years ago and I hope he’s grown from the experience but I don’t know how to proceed.
—Don’t Know Who to Trust