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Wondering if this is a trend?

My son recently attended a wedding as his platonic friend's plus one. She was part of the wedding party. But...neither she nor my son had ever met the bride and groom in person. She and the other WP members were all part of an online group (I cannot recall the interest.) The wedding was Viking/Sky Rim themed, and my son was her plus one because he is into this type of thing. They flew cross country for this, had to rent a car, get a hotel, etc. He seemed to think it was no big deal, because this mama was thinking, 'Are they being lured to some elaborate sacrifice ritual?" I've met online friends in person before, but this seemed different, due to the distance and expense, as well as to the occasion.

In any case, they had a great time at the wedding and returned home in one piece, slightly poorer, but he doesn't regret going.
 
So is this a common thing? Have you invited online only friends to your wedding or attended theirs?

Re: Wondering if this is a trend?

  • How long had the friend known the online group? I don’t think it’s that weird, especially given a global pandemic for people to form close friendships online and only “merry” in person for big events. I think if they’re smart and safe it’s no different than an event for friends you know in person but don’t see often. 

    FTR I’ve met up with TK friends in person when I was in their city- it was great! 
  • I think it's becoming much more common for people to have friends that they meet online and rarely see in person. I remember there being two women who were each other's bridesmaids who met on these boards way back a million years ago when I was getting married. I know they met in person before their weddings, but they also lived in the same city. I can see this being much less of a big deal post-covid where people had to learn to do so much virtually. 

    This scenario isn't common, but I agree with your son in that I don't really see it being completely unhinged. 
  • I haven’t personally invited friends I’ve only met online, but I do have plans to invite co-workers whom I’ve connected with virtually. While it might seem unconventional, it’s a testament to the changing landscape of relationships. I’m glad your son had a great time at the wedding and returned home safely.
  • Thanks for responding. My son reminded me that I have been to several gatherings of online friends (I'm part of a group that "met" years ago on a now-defunct parenting forum) and now many of us know one another IRL. So I guess it's not that different, really. I was just struck that a wedding seems more significant than, say, drinks with online friends, but I guess the pandemic did change the way people make friends.
  • seems like you're right 
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