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Don't tell her, but dump the friends

Dear Prudence,

I don’t have kids, but many of my friends do, and some very unkind things are being said about the baby of one friend, “Marlayna,” behind her back. The running joke is that we should start up a plastic surgery fund for her daughter because she “looks like a botched abortion.” I find this extremely off-putting. Would it be appropriate for me to say something to them about their insensitive comments or tell Marlayna what they’ve been saying about her baby?

Re: Don't tell her, but dump the friends

  • Why are you friends with these people??? 


  • VarunaTTVarunaTT member
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    I'm floored LW is still friends, b/c they would've dumped me after I gave them a piece of my mind.  I think most babies look like Winston Churchill, but I mean it as fun ribbing about how wrinkly babies are.  Also, I have never once told a friend that their baby looks like Winston Churchill and never will.

    FFS, don't tell Marlayna (segue: dear lord at the whyte people hidden y).
  • VarunaTT said:
    I'm floored LW is still friends, b/c they would've dumped me after I gave them a piece of my mind.  I think most babies look like Winston Churchill, but I mean it as fun ribbing about how wrinkly babies are.  Also, I have never once told a friend that their baby looks like Winston Churchill and never will.

    FFS, don't tell Marlayna (segue: dear lord at the whyte people hidden y).
    Both of mine came out looking like my father. 
  • ei34ei34 member
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    I wouldn’t tell Marlayna but wow, your friends are terrible 
  • levioosalevioosa member
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    How are you friends with these people? I will never tell people they have an ugly baby (and let’s be real, most babies are honestly not that cute until they iron out a little), but I have told people they have unicorn babies (a newborn who instantly is beyond adorable). Bff told me the other day she looks back at pictures of one of her kids and laughs because she thought they were the most beautiful baby in the world at the time and now realizes, uh…they were not. lol. 


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  • How is your first reaction to that comment anything other than telling them off? 

    I'm heavily judging LW for not immediately reacting. 
  • levioosa said:
    How are you friends with these people? I will never tell people they have an ugly baby (and let’s be real, most babies are honestly not that cute until they iron out a little), but I have told people they have unicorn babies (a newborn who instantly is beyond adorable). Bff told me the other day she looks back at pictures of one of her kids and laughs because she thought they were the most beautiful baby in the world at the time and now realizes, uh…they were not. lol. 
    Iron out a little!!!! Love this! Lol

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