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This is so normal for daycare - you're overreacting

I run a small daycare out of my home. Recently my sister “Abby” needed me to watch her 6-year-old son “Leo”—her mother-in-law had broken her wrist in a fall, and Abby needed to go stay with her until her sister-in-law could come and take over for her. I agreed to it without a second thought.

As it turned out, however, Leo had lice. I had to break the news to all the parents whose children I care for and go through the process of de-lousing my home and my own family. More than a few clients were angry enough to pull their kids from my daycare. I refuse to believe that Abby didn’t know Leo was harboring lice despite her fervent denials. She’s even gotten our parents into it—they claim that Abby would never have brought Leo over had she known and are asking me to let this go. Easy for them to say! My professional reputation has taken a hit, I’ve lost business, and I am absolutely furious! I want my sister to go on my daycare’s website and clear my name, but she refuses. Now what?

—Wronged Sister

Re: This is so normal for daycare - you're overreacting

  • Literally could have been anyone’s kid, it just happened to be your sisters. If you told clients it was a family member instead of the generic “a child in the class has x disease, here’s the protocol” that’s on you. This is so normal. Little Leo didn’t get live at you to destroy your business. Get it together. 
  • I honestly question if a DC provider WOULD say who had it.  

    I don't love that their policies don't say who the culprit is whether it's who has the illness or who bit my child, but they're there to protect everyone.

    So LW, if you didn't have the statement with the indefinite article A child and never 'HER child' (thinking Fight Club references here for anyone who watched that movie) let this be a lesson.

    Lice checks are around everywhere!  Chiquita had to go through them before going to sleep away camp.  
  • If I was a potential or current daycare client, I would find the owner's sister making a statement to "clear the LW's name" as incredibly bizarre, unprofessional, and off putting.  It also seems better for business to not have any mention of the previous lice problem on their website, instead of highlighting it, smh.

    I also think the parents who pulled their kids out were being pretty short-sighted, but they can do what they want.  Unfortunately, sometimes lice happens especially with small children.  They might go to their new daycare and it happens again.

    There was a "lice outbreak" when I was in 2nd grade and again when I was in 5th or 6th.  Nobody pulled their child out of school and sent them to another one in "outrage", lmao.
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  • Is this exaggerated or do you just live in some uppity area where a lice scare is trigger enough to go through the hassle of finding an all new daycare? I've never been in a place where children frequent (school, daycare, trampoline facility, tea house parties, etc) where lice hasn't been an issue at some point. It's a super common issue for kids. It happens. If you told everyone your sister's kid brought the lice then that was totally on you. I'm sure all the parents with kids here have gotten at least one letter from their school saying something along the lines of "We regret to inform you that there was a recent lice outbreak. Please check your child's scalp, hairbrush and pillowcases for evidence of lice. If lice is discovered, we ask that you keep your child home until treatment is completed to help prevent the spread." 


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    I keep the shampoo and kit in my linen closet bc although we haven’t had a case (yet), we’ve had multiple exposures. It happens. 

    I’m questioning the parents who pulled their kids out over this. Isn’t childcare really hard to find?? I lean towards, maybe LW has been unprofessional before?  If LW really messaged the parents and said a kid who isn’t usually here was, and exposed everyone else - bc that leads to questions of the caregiver to child ratio being out of proportion, are there often drop in kids, etc.  That’s not included here so I can only speculate. 

    What I know for certain is LW shouldn’t be cross with their sister and nephew. 
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