My fiancé and I are eloping locally with a few family members because the thought of a full wedding makes me anxious. We will be hosting a large reception/after party months later with food and drinks. I still would love to have a "wedding party" at our reception because my friends are so special to me and that's the only part that makes me sad about eloping. I don't expect them to buy special dresses or have "jobs", just want them to be honorary wedding party members and get some photos. Not sure if this is weird?