Recently got married and was wondering if anyone else thought this was rude. Our wedding was in large indoor event center at a lake. Me and my husband finished the ceremony and and walked out the doors after finishing. We go outside to take pictures and to meet friends and family. When we come back inside people began getting their food already before our officiant had us announced as husband and wife and before we were able to get our food. Everybody was already eating so we did not get announced coming back in. By the time we were able to get to the food most of it was gone. After that, the majority of the guests left before we were able to cut our cake. The whole thing felt very rushed by guests and just felt like they did not put me and my husband first. Any thoughts?