Wedding Woes

—Malicious Mother-in-Law

Dear Prudence,

Two days ago, I received a text from a friend asking why I was divorcing my husband, “Henry.” I explained that our marriage is perfectly fine and asked where she heard it. I should have known: my mother-in-law, “Nelly.”

Nelly has never cared for me, and over Christmas, I told her off after she made fun of my sister’s pregnancy weight gain to her face. As it turns out, she has since begun spreading the word that my husband and I are splitting up as a measure of revenge. Henry is scared of her and refuses to confront her about it. Should I threaten legal action if she refuses to correct the record with friends and relatives?


Re: —Malicious Mother-in-Law

  • So....by your husband remaining silent his answer isn't to correct others??

    I mean, how about you tell him that if he doesn't open his mouth and correct what she's doing then she's going to get what she wants. 
  • levioosalevioosa member
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     Henry is scared of her and refuses to confront her about it. 
    This sentence gave me the ick. 


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  • The only legal action you have available here, LW, is divorce. I'm seriously baffled that people honestly believe it's that easy to just go sue relatives for spreading rumors. 

    I guess you can drag Henry to counseling or whatever and hope he'll man up and be a partner, but I'm not holding my breath. 
  • Maybe you are getting divorced and this is the red flag you need to see that. If Henry won’t stand up to her about this will he about future kids, decisions about health care decisions, or gods forbid benefits if he were to die? If he’s not treating you as important now over this, what is he going to do when the stakes are much higher? 
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