Happy Tuesday all ;-)
Ok so my parents are paying for my wedding, for everything. Which I beyond appreciate because as we all know, these are quite costly events! This also means that I know they will get to have quite a bit of say since after all they are paying. But at what point do I draw the line? I mean it's still MY wedding right? My mom is on a roll, she's got everything all figured out. If I disagree with her on something or tell her I don't like her idea she jumps all over me and tells me I don't have an open mind. But I feel like no one is asking me what I want or what I like. She even went to look at venues without me and was trying to pick my bridesmaids and flower girls. It just so happened that this past weekend I went to a bridal show with my MOH and my mom was out of town so she did not attend. That afternoon I recieved a voicemail from my dad saying I better call my mom right away and fill her in on the bridal show so that her feelings don't get hurt. Im sorry, WHAT?! How do I spend the next year planning WITH my mom instead of against her? I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I want to feel like I have some say and control in all of this.