So my hunny is Christian and I'm not and he said one thing that's really important to him is that we're married by a Christian minister (which is fine with me) and we want to get married near or on the beach. But he said today his Mom told him that she heard that pastors A: won't marry you outside a church and B: require you do marriage couseling first. His parents used to be 7th day advensts but left the church many years ago so I wasn't sure if that was just the 7th day advents that won't let you marry outside the church or if that was all Christianity? If it is, is there a way we could get an officiant from the courts to marry us that will do it a specific religions way?